I am a sucker for a well-made Romantic Comedy. I can understand why some people steer clear of the entire genre though. They can be fairly formulaic, at times downright predictable, and at worst…corny. However, most classic Romantic Comedies I’ve watched have surprised me, made me laugh out loud, and compelled me think about life and the way people love one another. The Philadelphia Story is still unequaled among Romantic Comedies. From the start, I’m laughing, and by the end, I’m happy crying. The film transitions seamlessly from earnest moments where Tracy is reflecting on her own character to the moments of ridiculous hilarity of Macaulay Connor waking C.K. Dexter Haven at two a.m. The narrative is one of self-discovery for both Tracy Lord and Macaulay Connor. They discover who they are, and in the process, who they love. The most poignant moment in the film is the interaction between Tracy and her father, Seth Lord before her wedding. Let me know if you agree, and what other moments resonate with you!Post your thoughts in the comments section or join the Facebook group "Melody and Grit Classic Movie Challenge" and put it there! I'll be featuring my favorites together in a blog post!
Four classic films. One month.
This upcoming April, I am challenging my readers to watch four classic films and chat about them with me. I’ve selected a romantic comedy, suspense thriller, romantic drama, and film noir specifically for this month. The films on the list are well suited to all audiences and easily accessible for those new to classic films. Each week, I will prepare readers to watch the weekly film pick. On Wednesday I will post a cocktail pairing, and on Thursday I will post a "Get the Look," where I'll feature an outfit, hair, and makeup design inspired by the week's film. A full content recap of the film will go live on Saturday morning.
How to Take the Challenge
Join the Facebook group to chat about the film with myself and other readers taking the challenge! The Facebook group is called Melody & Grit Classic Film Challenge. I will also be engaging with any followers on Instagram and the blog if you want to chat about the films, drop me a line!
Are you ready?
Week of Sunday, April 1st: Philadelphia Story
Week of Sunday, April 8th: Vertigo
Week of Sunday, April 15th: Double Indemnity
Week of Sunday, April 22nd: Casablanca
All of the films are available on Amazon and other retailers! They may also be available at your local library. Click on the movie title for a link to rent or buy the film on Amazon video.
I've never been a homebody. Sitting around the house on a Friday gives me more anxiety than going out and trying something new. I'm the first to admit that I have serious FOMO issues. Here are seven options for getting out on the town if you're anything like me, or if you're looking to step outside your comfort zone.
I love coffee shops. I think more than the average person. I was a barista at Anchor and Anvil Coffee Bar during high school. (Check them out if you haven't. Super high quality coffee.) My friends and I would grab coffee nearly everyday after class in high school. Then I carried that routine to college with new friends, and I made countless memories. I wrote my first feature article for our school newspaper there, met best friends for the first time, and even told someone I loved them for the first time. So, coffee shops...sacred ground. Not all shops are treated equal, however. I like high quality coffee and places that have honey for my tea. (I earned the nickname Pooh Bear in college, because I would bring honey to our campus Starbucks.) Corny as it sounds, you have to vibe there. A few weeks ago, when I walked into Adda Coffee and Tea House in the outfit pictured below, the vibe felt right. I ordered a Ginger Tumeric Latte, because as a singer I'm all about ingredients that boost immunity. The food was mouthwatering. They have vegan and gluten free options that are actually delicious. Hit this place up. They are located in Shadyside on South Highland Ave.
Photos by Stone Weiss. Check him out here.
Indeed. Just in this last year I've become a college graduate, held two different jobs, began teaching voice privately, covered my dream role in the operatic repertoire, started this blog, and performed two full recitals with dream programs. Not to mention a whole host of other experiences that left me feeling renewed. I learned a lot this year. Like how to put myself first. I've always understood the essential life fact of taking care of yourself before you take care of others, but it's not always easy to put that into practice. It's something I get better at with each decision. It's not about staying at home in a bubble bath, because you want to avoid putting yourself out there. It's also not about going out every night, because you're afraid of missing out. (Guess which problem I have.) It's about the wisdom to know what's best for yourself in each individual situation. I don't always innately want to do what's best for myself, but with the experiences of this year, I've found that I always know what's best for myself. It's about honesty. Honesty with others and honesty with yourself. So here's to more of that this year.
I've been rummaging through sale bins, clothes racks, and boxes for unique things since I could walk. My grandmother and I always hit thrift shops together, and my parents and I go to flea markets and yard sales constantly. I always come away with some great finds. While I love Etsy, there's something extremely satisfying about physically looking for things, pushing past a bunch of stuff you would never consider to find something you can't live without. I definitely go in phases of what I keep my eye out for, which leads to having great collections. Here's what's been on my list to keep an eye out for recently, and some of what I've came away with!
- Gloves- The weather has been terrible in Pittsburgh, and you can't get along without a pair of gloves. Lower end antique stores and flea markets typically have piles of them. Always remember to try them on! I have very small hands, but vintage gloves have often been way too tight for me. Generally, I keep my eye out for unique colors and textures. I have a pair of red leather ones and pink suede ones that I wear constantly. My most recent buy are the driving gloves with leather detailing pictured below. I purchased them for only $10.
- Hats- I have a huge vintage hat collection. I love hats, because they always take an outfit to the next level. I can't wait to style the red, white, and, blue striped beret I picked up for $10.
- Scarves- I LOVE the smaller silk, satin, or chiffon neck scarves that were popular in 50s, 60s, and 70s. You can wear them close to a million ways. I prefer to wear them tied in simple knot at the side of my neck. I look for unique colors and prints, and I can't wait to style the printed one below that I found for $2.
- Glassware- Can't say I'm a homeowner, but the adorable green mugs I got below are perfect catch-alls on my vanity at home. They're incredibly durable, and somehow, they don't look like I just left the dishes in my room.
Here are some photos my talented friend Tristan, of Impression Lasting, took to promote my upcoming song recital, Virgins on the Verge. The program will feature songs exploring the psyches of women such as Ophelia, Mirabai, and the Virgin Mary. Highlights of the program are Strauss's Ophelia Lieder, John Harbison's Mirabai Songs with a full chamber orchestra, and Purcell's The Blessed Virgin's Expostulation. I tried my best to emulate Ophelia in this shoot. We shot at Schenley Lake, and I still can't believe I got in that water...
The link to check out the event on Facebook can be found here: https://www.facebook.com/events/1932847853398707/
Check out more of Tristan's work on his Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Implaspho/